Saturday, June 16, 2012

More Dances with My Muses...


Hyphens as Minus Signs

“Oh,” he smiled without a trace of malice, “so…you’re a Jew-by-Choice, then.”

As if those hyphens were actually minus signs that, when subtracted from the sum of the whole,
equaled a person somehow less-than, a fraction shy of authentic.

Oh, I wanted to reply. So…are you going to break the bad news to Sarah, Yitro, Ruth, the thousands of millions at Sinai, and Rabbi Akiva, too?

Or should I? 
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Lashon Hora
Sadly, tragically, I got to know you before I ever met you
In a neon-lit concrete dive - 
late night, cigarette smoke,
with cocktails over easy.
Introductions were made by way of an eager third party
who, upon hearing your fabled name, dressed you up for me in the most bedazzling of improprieties…
Of course, I saw nothing wrong as I had met so many other celebrities in this way before…
Only this time,
my last time,
I finally understood what was happening here.
In a neon-lit concrete dive - 
late night, cigarette smoke,
with cocktails over easy.
And now, whether in one year, fifteen or twenty
I will never know
the thrill unraveling that ancient mystery
of meeting you,
another human,
for the very first time.  
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The Shape of a Jew
The Nazis got it wrong. (Of course.)
You cannot tell a Jew by the size of his nose,
the curls in her hair
or by measuring the circumference of a seemingly Semitic skull.

What Hitler could never understand was that Jews are measured
by the width of their open arms,
the height of their communal pride,
the length of their shared histories,
the depth of their curiosities
and the exact circumference of their circumcised hearts.


Friday, June 8, 2012

Queer Jewish activist. Same sentence. Of course.


(The spirit and action and unending pursuit of social justice was one of the aspects of Reform Judaism that originally beckoned me through my temple's door. It seemed that many of the activists whose  ר֫וּחַ I was inspired by were, in some way shape or form, Jewish: Emma Goldman, Allan Ginsberg, Gloria Steinem, Harvey Milk, Lisa Edelstein, Elizabeth Taylor, Kate Bornstein, Bella Abzug, Leslie Feinberg, Judith Plaskow, Barbara Streisand... Now you may argue that correlation does not equal causation and for some of the aforementioned, their Jewishness was in fact antithetical to their activism. And I would respond, yep, you are absolutely correct. Still, I believe there are no coincidences....only, perhaps, a dearth of critical analysis.

Here is one more individual who I would add to the list :) 

Gay Marriage’s Jewish Pioneer